For Ella.
For the daughter she kept — me — who grew up in the dark.
When I could see again, I took photos of the adoption record and the note and sent them to Margaret.
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She called right away.
"I saw," she said, voice shaking. "Is that… real?"
"It's real," I said. "Looks like my mother was your mother too."
We did a DNA test to be sure.
Silence stretched between us.
"I always thought I was nobody's," she whispered. "Or nobody who wanted me. Now I find out I was… hers."
"Ours," I said. "You're my sister."
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We did a DNA test to be sure. It confirmed what we already knew: full siblings.
People ask if it felt like some big, happy reunion. It didn't.
It felt like standing in the ruins of three lives and finally seeing the shape of the damage.
We compare childhoods.
We're not pretending we're suddenly best friends. You can't make up 70-plus years over coffee.
But we talk.
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We compare childhoods. We send pictures. We point out little similarities. We also talk about the hard part:
My mother had three daughters.
One she was forced to give away.
One she lost in the forest.
Pain doesn't excuse secrets, but it explains them.
One she kept and wrapped in silence.
Was it fair? No.
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Can I understand how a person breaks like that? Sometimes, yes.
Knowing my mother loved a daughter she wasn't allowed to keep, another she couldn't save, and me in her broken, silent way… it shifted something.
Pain doesn't excuse secrets, but it explains them.
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